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    September 20

    六心老母

     
    爱心+耐心+包容心+恒心+责任心=父母心
     
    这个周末,阿姨没来,自己带Ethan,真的觉得累,心累。每天要揣着6心当老母,不容易啊。
     
    爱心:每天提醒自己100遍呀100遍:爱的教育,铁的纪律
    耐心:从外面回来,为了让Ethan去洗手,说了5分钟需要洗手的理由;又花了10分钟说服他把冰箱门关上;托马斯的故事讲了10遍以上,咿呀咿呀哟的歌儿唱了20遍左右,直到声嘶力竭。
    包容心:Ethan总拉着我做他想做的事情,否则就发脾气,实践了雪兔妈分享的“积极相应,延迟兑现”的方法,基本有效,值得推广。
    恒心:刚看了一本书,名字叫:话说对了,孩子就听话了。最近试着改变和Ethan沟通的方式,觉得还蛮有效的,决定坚持下去。;老实说不容易,经常会在生气的时候忘掉。这里再提醒自己一下。
    责任心: 没有人比妈妈对孩子的影响更重要,时时刻刻是孩子的榜样。
    父母心:听到老师表扬Ethan,心里特别骄傲,想很每个人都说一遍:老师说Ethan像天使。累的时候,只要默默地坐在地上,看着小床里熟睡的Ethan的小脸,觉得他此时此刻就是天使!
     

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    雪兔 Guwrote:
    是积极响应,延迟满足。做到不容易,+oil!
    Oct. 15
    哈哈哈,新妈很有心得体会啊,红字部分的确相当经典,大家共勉哈!
    Sept. 28
    菁菁 王wrote:
    真的是好有耐心,我感觉差很多呢,最近经常会一下子失去耐心,然后对着琢琢大吼一声。以后也要每天100遍的提醒自己:爱的教育,铁的纪律!
    Sept. 24
    Sunny Linwrote:
    赞一下,我也把这六心记住。
    Sept. 21
    cocoa zhangwrote:
    好吧,作为一个新手,把这六心默记一遍~
    Sept. 21
    Lilianwrote:
    蛮佩服Ethan妈妈的耐心耶,居然能唠叨这么长时间呀!
    Sept. 21

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